Marriage is a game of a lifetime, you have to gamble, you have to struggle and overcome the differences. When you said YES for marriage you might have thought you have entirely known your partner, you might have thought your life would be perfect. You may be or may feel complete now but Perfect? I don’t think so. Oh if you think of it that way, you certainly have no idea. In marriage, every couple has to work it out. Believe me, your first few years would be extremely sweet but at times could be extremely rough. You have to endure it and make your marriage better; otherwise your marriage would end too soon. Every couple has to exert much effort to understand, listen, and learn from each other. There will be so many times that you would feel like giving up but please hold it up.
Marriage and Woes
Look at the brighter side of every circumstance. Think of the love ones that might suffer or might be affected by separation should you call it quits. Every couple encounter troubles, every couple have their share of big fights but when we learn to accept and respect each other’s opinion or side, and think of your love for each other and God, your troubles will mend and it will pass.
This rule may not apply at all times but try to do this whenever possible: If you have fight during the day, don’t let the sun go down without fixing it. If you fight at night, don’t wait for the sun to rise without fixing it. Most importantly, when you have it fixed, “Pray.”